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Sarah Thomson alleges lewd exchange with Rob Ford
2010 mayoral candidate Sarah Thomson claims a visibly intoxicated Rob Ford made a series of inappropriate comments and unwanted advances at a fundraising event last night, telling her she should have joined him on his trip to Florida last week "because his wife wasn't there."
Writing on Facebook, Thomson claims Ford was "out of it" at the annual Canadian Jewish Political Affairs Community event and that he touched her inappropriately while posing for a photograph. In that picture, Rob Ford is seen with his arm around Thomson and a third person whose face is out of shot.
"I've never seen him so out of it. I know I shouldn't be pissed but after spending 10 months on the campaign trail together you expect a little bit of respect at the very least for my husband," she wrote.
"Anyone who talked to him tonight could see he was out of it - I'm venting because I thought on the respect for women level he was better than that."
She later wonders in the comment thread whether "grabbing someone['s] ass [is] assault."
Thomson, the publisher of national business magazine Women's Post, ran against Ford in the 2010 mayoral election and had the support of Conrad Black. She dropped out of the race on 27 September, 2010, to throw her support behind George Smitherman, finishing tenth in the polls. Thomson was also the Liberal candidate for Trinity-Spadina in 2011.
Speaking on Newstalk 1010 this morning, Thomson said she doesn't plan to take any legal action as a result of the encounter. Ford has yet to comment on the accusations, so we'll update this post when additional information is available. During the night an anonymous Ford staffer told the Star several aides were within earshot and did not hear the alleged exchange.
Later, also on Newstalk 1010, Richmond Hill councillor Carmine Perrelli who was also at the event says he overheard Thomson planning to "set up" the mayor with a compromising photo.
Speaking to the Star, Thomson recalled she was "worried that he might do it again to someone" and said to Perrelli "I wish I had another picture and my assistant said she'd go up to him and see if he would do it to her. He did not and it seemed like someone had talked to him."
"I wanted to punch him in the face," she told reporter Daniel Dale.
Rob Ford's chief of staff Mark Towhey said the mayor was consulting with his legal team and is "shocked" by the allegations. A statement is expected some time this afternoon.
UPDATE: 12:45
In a written statement issued a short time ago, Rob Ford addressed what he calls "false allegations," saying he is "shocked, dismayed and surprised" to be accused by Thomson.
"What is more surprising is that a woman who has aspired to be a civic leader would cry wolf on a day where we should be celebrating women across the globe," he continues.
"This is a day we should all take the time to reflect upon the women in our lives and in our society. It is a day when we can envision the changes we want to make in our communities to ensure that all people are equal and that violence and discrimination against women comes to an end."
Chris Bateman is a staff writer at blogTO. Follow him on Twitter at @chrisbateman.
Image: Facebook.


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Sounds like a pretty clear cut defamation suit.
If Rob Ford is guilty of impropriety here, Facebook is certainly not the appropriate venue to address this potentially serious issue. I don't understand why Thomson chose to air this there, rather than go to the police.
Happy International Women's Day.
Toronto sure is going downhill under Rob Ford.
The comments by raging Ford Nation trolls only make the situation worse - apparently this is all Sarah's fault now.
No wonder women do not report rape.
c'mon people.
And where do these women get off when they report sexual assault? Why aren't they making me a sandwich, right, bro?
All she wants from him is an apology, and he's lucky if that's all he has to give.
The man has a WIFE and KIDS, people.....show some respect and back off.
Only thing left to say is what everyone already knows...FORD 2014!!
I'm guessing there is literally no action (short of the crime of raising taxes) that would cause his rabid followers to finally abandon this buffoon and pick a new conservative champion. How very sad.
If she wants an apology, call the fat f*ck and ask for one.
But of course, because she's an adult, I assume the moment it happened she clearly voiced her disapproval to him, and already asked for one, right? RIGHT?
She can handle the situation anyway she pleases. She is a grown woman. she chose not to steal the spotlight from an important event because he grabbed her butt and made an inappropriate comment. she probably felt this wasn't a police calling worthy incident because of their relationship. also she was a bit tipsy as it seems. but then she maybe woke up and decided i can't let that slide. to say that there is anything wrong with her approach is absolutely ridiculous and just another bunch of morons finding backwards ways to defend the undefendable. don't worry ford nation we are used to it.
FordNation: "Those retard kids shoulda watched where they were going! And there's too many puppies in this city. Go Ford Go!
2. RoFo raids city coffers to buy magic beans, bankrupts city.
FordNation "You stupid libs -- the beans will work after we pour gravy over them. Go Ford go!"
RoFo accidentally summons Cthulhu, ushering in the return of the Old Ones and dooming humankind to Hell on Earth.
FordNation: "Waaah, stupid libtards can't take a little heat? Global warming's a scam! My ass is burning!
He could drunkenly run over a child crossing the street to get to school, and Ford Nation would say "Kids shouldn't be playing in the street."
I think that's a made-up story because the cops in this town have the mayor's back.
His poor wife.
Besides, it doesn't matter where you are or how drunk you are...rape comments are NEVER appropriate.
Also she said on the radio that she only had one drink, but, he said that she was drinking scotch (earlier she said she just had one drink and it wasn't scotch).
Seems like her story is starting to fall apart a bit....This is in addition to her saying that she talked to his staff when it turns out she just talked to people that "knew" him, etc.
Ugh. How is it disrespectful to her husband? Unless it's that ownership-property dynamic.
Slow news day, fersure!
Good times...
Happy International Women's Day!
It's lonely fighting the good fight.
(super-EW!)
So, what is your name and what is your job on Rob Fords staff?
Or do you simply not want to answer?
Otherwise, it's just another half-assed attempt to stir up shit against a public figure.
It won't come too soon, this is a distraction from more important issues.
Please, I'd really like to know. Just to clear up where you stand on relevant issues.
At the end of the day, I think she'll come out looking worse than he will, but only because it's an icky way to have proceeded and his base defends him come what may.
If this incident did in fact occur, Sarah's not doing others in the same boat any favours by not reporting it in a more formal matter. Even if she didn't want to take it any further, she could have quietly made a report to police and say she didn't want to press charges so it was at least on the books.
Every situation IS different though, so who knows what was going through her head when he did it. I'm sure a lot of women have had their ass grabbed and just said 'why bother' because it's happened with 20 other guys before then. But I'll always wave a wee tiny flag for every woman who decides "yes, it's not worth my bother because it was just an ass-grab, but this jerk has to be taught a lesson, and why not it be me?" and actually files a complaint. Because those men will always need to be dragged kicking and screaming into the modern world.
OK. Good to know.
Pretty clear already that Ford will weather the storm until the next newscycle brings some other ridiculous distraction aimed at him. Glad the voting public (save for the whiners here) are fully behind him still.
Next...
If ford really did lay his hands on her, the police should be handling it.
And hopefully that rug is at the bottom of Lake Ontario.
Perfectly sane reaction to someone spilling your popcorn, no?
(Stay pinchy, my friends)
If Thomson didn't think it was important enough to report to the police, then perhaps she is spreading the wrong message to women on International Woman's Day...that its not a crime to grope someone like she is alleging...and that's bad. That's only if she's telling the truth. If she had a legitimate case and really wanted to make Ford look bad...she would have lawyered up and be looking to press charges.
And why would Ford tell Thomson that his wife wasn't with him in Florida last week when the whole family was shown last week at the airport leaving for Florida in a family vacation? Thomson's got holes in her story...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XvqradXuR1E
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XvqradXuR1E
Have you ever had a man (associate)touch your bum? If you did would you call the police about it?
As far as claiming she made up the florida comment, that's a pretty wacky thing to make up. especially when you are not sure and it can easily be disproven. please direct me to proof that his family was in florida with him last week.
Perhaps there was a gummi Venus De Milo stuck to her ass.
If my sister came to me and said this had happened to her and this is how she was going to tell people about it, I would say that it was a totally weird platform in which to discuss such a serious accusation. It'd be like breaking up with someone via wall posts...just flaky, y'know?
If you have been sexually harrassed in any manner, you have every right to speak up about it, and there are dozens of ways to go about it (tell a cop, a counsellor, a trusted friend, a hotline, an elder, someone in the church, your therapist, you folks, etc.). Just don't be weird about it and post it on such an odd forum (and that's what it is, a publiuc forum) as Facebook is...because then it becomes more about the HOW you opened up rather than WHY you opened up.
And I quote: "A CityNews crew reporting on Wednesday morning’s storm-related flight delays at Pearson International Airport stumbled on Ford, his wife and two young children.
The mayor told the station they are visiting Disney World. Ford’s flight was not delayed or cancelled by the slushy storm."
City TV saw his wife and kids at the airport...so someone's lying. City TV or Sarah Thomson.
not so fast, I get your point. She clearly went to the media (facebook can definitely be considered a form of media is this day. likely the fastest) because she felt that that was the suitable punishment for the crime. She felt humiliated and decided that a counselor, trusted friend, or therapist would be letting him off the hook and contacting the police would be extreme. Doesn't make her a liar. may leave a bad taste in the mouth of some, but thats the route she went and I can completely understand it.
I wouldn't go that far...
Seems BlogTO has conveniently left the latest update from two Richmond Hill City Councilors who have come out saying they heard Sarah Thompson and her colleague discussing last night at the event setting up a situation with the Mayor in this exact position. But alas, BlogTO is only interested in one side of the story which suits their leftist agenda.
Why are you not reaching out to the council members from Richmond Hill? Oh yeah, thy might actually be journalism.
Sarah Thomson is 'Publisher and CEO' of the 'Women's Post', and going to Facebook and not the proper authorities sets the wrong example to how women should approach 'sexual' assault. Her actions are out of character for someone whose livelihood is to advocate for women's rights. I don't buy her as the helpless little girl with nowhere else to run but straight to the internet. She knows better, I'm sure of it. If she were any less of a public figure in any other position, I might buy her story but in her being who she is, I don't believe her story for a second. I sure know how I would deal with someone of the mayor's position, if it happened to me and it doesn't involve social media.
I don't know what Thomson's motives would be to lie but I know that a municipal election is a year away and that Thomson has been out of the public spotlight for a while. What better way to get your name back in the news, garner a bit of sympathy (and the female vote) and bring down a potential opponent at the same time?
Beyond that, it's all hearsay. She can't prove that it happened and he can't prove that it didn't. However, I can see holes in her story and a potential motive. That's all I can go by.
Thank you, Jay. For not only saving our city, but all journalism itself.
Someone please give that man a bag of oats.
Sounds like a chocolate bar. Or maybe a brand of chewing tobacco.
I mean...her glassy eyes clearly say "I want to push you into the nearest coat room and pull off all your sweaty clothes and rub my face all over your most hot and tender bits".
But --if you look closely-- her disheveled hair is actually saying "No, I'm going to push you into a coat room and pull off all your clothes, but then maybe I'm going to neatly fold them in a pile and then stare out the window".
Well, that's just not right. Ask any male judge in the land, all drunken public servants know the code: if your hot mophead says NO, but your blurry, vodka-stained face parts signal YES, you might have no other choice but to tackle a tubby naked guy and mane-whip him all night long....or until you both decide you'd rather head back to the buffet.
Poor guy. I hope the judge gives him a huge settlement. Like a 6-pack of undershirts. Or maybe some mittens so he can't grab things as easily.
Well that did it. I took ten seconds to mull it over and now my brain is damaged. I have a disturbingly vivid image of Hissonner lumbering towards me, his junk all wappity-wappp-wapp, a big old grin and a flirty little gleam in his eyes. Brrr...I'm out.
Can we please go back to talking about under-funded bridges and the days when he used to say things like Gino-Boy??? THAT conversation I could at least handle.
I'll have two of whatever he was drinking. :)
Lame.
Guess his little brother was okay with a little collateral damage.
It's also important for you to know he's all grown-up now and he wears really shiny shoes now and has probably ridden in a limousine, too, so you can't make fun of him anymore like you did in high school.
Yep...Sloooge, like Mayor Ford or Stephen Harper before him, is not at all the sad pathetic loser drip he was back in the day when no one paid any attention to him because he was about as fun as a bag of wet flour.
Take a bow, Slooogie-boy!
Now shoo, Jay...the adults are talking here.
That Rob Ford...when he's partying, only the best will do!
"Hey, Uh...the 80s called, they want their lame humour back."
(putz...)