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Hot Fetishes and Fantasies at the Church Street Fetish Fair

Posted by Jen Brailsford / August 17, 2009

toronto church street fetish fairIt was hot for more than one reason at the sixth annual Church Street Fetish Fair this weekend. With temperatures and humidity soaring, Sunday proved to be the kind of day one would ideally spend in a bathing suit by a pool... or for some, in their birthday suits and loafers at the Fetish Fair.

It turns out I was slightly overdressed for this event (in my mini-shorts and tank top), as most opted for more of a breeze in their chaps or other various small strips of leather. When temperatures hit their peak, I think I might have been just a tiny bit jealous.

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This year's fair featured demonstrations and performances that included all one could ever need to know about properly executing all kinds of kinky sexual fetish fantasies. Experienced demonstrators went over everything from whips, to bondage, to hitting people with sticks.

I attended the latter demonstration out of curiosity, mainly because "hitting people with sticks" sounded odd enough to be interesting for my inexperienced ears. I mean, in any context (kinky or not), who wouldn't want to attend a workshop of such a quirky topic?church st fetish fair

At the demonstration, a woman named Black Orchid went over the various types of sticks that could be used to achieve the "right kind of hurt." She stressed certain safety aspects and went over the ideal places on the body for make-it-hurt-so-good hitting (which, as it turns out it, is anywhere fleshy).church st fetish fair20090717-fetishfestival4.jpgIt wasn't until it got dark that I discovered my favourite part of the festival - the last event of the day... the fire show. While I personally wouldn't call it a "turn on", people doing dangerous things with fire is always an awesome spectacle.

During my time at the Church Street Fetish Fair, I didn't tap into any secret fetish. In fact, I'll be the first to admit there were some uncomfortable moments that made me blush and stare at my feet. Turns out I'm a bit of a prude.

While these fetishes aren't really my thing, I realized that there is a certain amount of technique and skill involved in making these various activities enjoyable. So, if you're bored in the bedroom and have a thing for leather, I would definitely recommend attending next year's Fetish Fair. Or you could just go for the kickass fire show.church st fetish fair torontochurch st fetish fair

Discussion

24 Comments

Tristan / August 17, 2009 at 01:47 pm
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Kinky. haha
One of the photos there with the woman staring right into the camera as she twirls the fire - looks amazing!
handfed / August 17, 2009 at 04:39 pm
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I didn't know sadomasochism was mainstream
Adam / August 17, 2009 at 05:06 pm
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Whatever! The Fetish Fair was actually really, really tame- no play piercing, full-frontal nudity, not even much hardcore bondage, very few puppies, etc. Some of us who actually like to play (as opposed to dressing up in leather and posing) were a bit bored. Toronto is so provincial sometimes- fairs like this in other cities can be much more kinky.
ddt replying to a comment from Adam / August 17, 2009 at 05:41 pm
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play at home
swellman replying to a comment from Adam / August 17, 2009 at 05:58 pm
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Just curious, which cities have fairs like this that are more kinky? San Fran? Maaaaaaybe NYC? Where else? I can see European cities being more liberal but then you should be complaining about North America being conservative, not just Toronto.
merriemelodies replying to a comment from Adam / August 17, 2009 at 06:39 pm
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As I live on the fringe (sic) of this neighbourhood, gimme provincial any day. As ddt says, play at home. If I wanted some creep who looks like the little yellow man from Tarantino's Sin City waving his leatherclad schlong in my face, I'd pay for it at a club. You want kink, you go bend over somewhere else.
Steve Munro / August 17, 2009 at 07:47 pm
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Yes, fetish is mainstream. I was involved for over 10 years in giving "Safer SM" seminars and during that time the audiences changed from the LGBT community mainly downtown to folks who would drive in from all over southern Ontario. There are kinky folks everywhere.

If you don't like the activities on show, don't come to the fair.
FetKnight / August 17, 2009 at 07:51 pm
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Thank you for such a geat article, as the organizer of this year's fire show, I want to thank every one of the performers & church street for allowing us to have a place to play in the spotlight. As a firebreather, I have been lucky to have had past oppertunity to preform in TO venues like the Opera House, The Vatican, & The Reverb; that was until a bar was burnt to the ground in the States. After that tragic accident, NO venue would accept us, NO one would allow us to play with fire indoors. No matter how good our safety procedure were, fire was simply no longer safe at all. In the past few years, fire play activities are now a growing art encouraged by younger peoples: the drum circles of Trinity Bellwoods Park, in Kensington Market, and on Cherry Beach during a regular summer gathering called Promise. We still survive, and thanks to those like you, are even cherished and promoted...thank you ;)
I maintain I want to show the public the different forms of fire play SO.. just wait till you see what I've got planned to show you next year.

0--}Fet=Knight=>
jklsbefhheeq / August 18, 2009 at 02:16 am
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Aside from that one asian chick juggling, that's the most un-diverse looking Toronto crowd going.

Perhaps it was the luck of the draw with those pictures, or maybe visible minorities don't do kinky things.
servant_36 / August 18, 2009 at 03:10 am
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Well I'm amazed to see myself in this. [I'm the black dog in leather featured here]. I dunno... some people on here badmouth alot they don't understand. I did the day on all 4rs [yep some 6 hrs for me] with breaks for lunch and the fire show. I'd like to see some of the so called "players who do more than just pose" try to do that in 30 degree weather [celcius] wearing a leather hood on the heat stricken road.

Just saying.....is all. Arf. ^O_O^~
Gloria replying to a comment from jklsbefhheeq / August 18, 2009 at 08:18 am
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Yeah, a few photos at BlogTO is definitely scientific.
merriemelodies replying to a comment from servant_36 / August 18, 2009 at 05:45 pm
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How about taking your darling puppy act away from public venues and into the dark, dank, skank and dingy where you can all gather and do whatever you please without pissing off people who prefer a less prurient and exhibitionistic existence?
Zed / August 18, 2009 at 06:09 pm
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Why is this necessary? You have a kinky side, so what? Is it that boring that you need to showcase it to the masses, your co-workers, your friends, families, and whomever else might be there, or see some of the posted pix? Kink is fun, but unless you are a true exhibionist willing to go all the way in front of a group, why bother?
fetknight. replying to a comment from merriemelodies / August 18, 2009 at 06:09 pm
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that is just the kind of attitude that keeps preditors going , prostitution and drugs in criminal hands, sierial killers lose, and desease in panedemic perportions. you should wake up some time
darling... just about the time one of your family gets all caught up in a dark dank corner by some preditor with an std. Then when you live through that loss you might think a little different.
Information IS Freedom! Freedom is the right to be who you are.
merriemelodies replying to a comment from fetknight. / August 18, 2009 at 06:43 pm
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Sweetheart, predators are who they are because they are born fucking sociopaths, not because society stifles them. You think a fetish fair reduces predation??? I think it only aggravates it. I'm not saying that fetishism should be outlawed. I'm just saying that I don't want it on my city streets or parks. If you wanna do a puppy thing or flog your handcuffed bitch with a cat-o'-ninetails, by all means go ahead and do it in the privacy of your own home or club of choice. Just stay outta my face and keep outta my kids' faces when I'm taking a walk.
fetknight / August 18, 2009 at 10:15 pm
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preditors operate freely because no safe haven or education IS out there, no one helps thier prey! That is changing, one day at a time. one bar at a time, one freedom of expression or right at a time. A.C.T. Was a major player on that street Sunday. With thier Very comprehensive pamplet "BDSM Safer Kinky Sex" The Whole thing was a cheritable donation Halco.org .
And if by standing out in that street sunday I helped one Newbie find the knowledge they needed to enjoy some of the things this life has to offer. safely, properly... then I'd stand out there every day. LOL Nakid! Maybe Cassy house would have free beds & Fife house wouldn't be building a brand new complex.

But that all aside... that is just a soap box,
That was a safe and sequre location for any one of the 20,000 people that wanted to know a little more or play in the mid-day city sun. the street was closed , signs are posted at every entrance about the adult content. So like this is more a right back at ya but if you don't want your kids to know this stuff, Don't take them... If you live close to this street, choose to take them another way.
I'm proud to live in a country that has a charter of rights and freedoms. Something stated in there is that no one can take a given right or freedom away from another. By that we have the right by permit to do this. So... we do. But to come off and tell me I should dwell in the dark? WOW Are you ever wrong... in your thinking.
and you and others that think like this NEED a wake up call.
YOUR part of the problem. That blind eye, the ignorance, and predjuse fan a fire of unseen problems that won't go away without bringing it into the light and finding the solutions.

Why I'm 0--}=Fet=Knight=>

merriemelodies replying to a comment from fetknight / August 18, 2009 at 10:54 pm
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Bullshit, babycakes. Go see a shrink and get over your self.
servant_36 replying to a comment from merriemelodies / August 19, 2009 at 06:10 pm
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and you can stay at home in your conservative plastic fantastic madinson avenue suite bore of an existance.

Honestly, when nobody gets killed at the fetish fair, and in history, people get gunned down at say.. oh I dunno....caribana....

Why not outlaw caribana? Also, how about outlawing the catholic and the prodestant orange march down yongue st as well considering there has been more worldly deaths at these events than harmless fetish fairs.

Truthfully, these are events that do not promote anything but their lifestyle and the enjoyment of it. It doesn't matter. Nobody gets harmed, and arrogant pricks who don't bother to try stuff before judging it, should move to Iqaluit where the weather is as cold as they are.
servant_36 replying to a comment from merriemelodies / August 19, 2009 at 06:11 pm
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Don't like it, move to russia, or better yet anywhere OUT of the southern ontario area. do us all a favour.
Sir Thomas / August 20, 2009 at 06:04 pm
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Having been born, raised, and introduced to the BDSM world in the NJ/NY Metro area, then moving to Toronto and living happily for 13 yrs, until having to move due to health issues. I've been gone now almost 10 yrs., and nothing that I've seen comes close to the events that take place in Toronto. I've missed the ability to walk down the street with a half nude sub on a leash. It's the reason that I'm considering becoming a "snow-bird" so I don't have to miss great gatherings such as the "Fair".

If you are a responsible adult, you wouldn't give a loaded gun or pornography to your children. If you don't want them or yourself to see what's going on at the Fair then keep them away from it. Just like you we enjoy the same rights, freedom to see or do (within the limits of the law) what we choose. The law works both ways. "Equal protection for all"

The bottom line is don't complain or bitch about the laws that are there to protect ALL OF US.
merriemelodies replying to a comment from Sir Thomas / August 20, 2009 at 06:38 pm
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You are missing the point, Sir. Our dear servant_36 thinks s/he should be able to parade his sexual fantasies in a public venue, and clearly gets hypocritically hot when someone disavows that. I and many others disagree that displays of sexual content should be allowed in public. Loaded guns and pornography are not featured in street fairs. Even sexually controversial performances, sculptures, paintings, movies, TV shows, etc. are kept away from city streets. All I'm saying is that I really don't care what you like, whether sheep fucking is your thing, or banging your willy into some leather-clad bitch. Just get it outta my face when I'm strolling the streets with my kids. If I want to see it, I'll make the necessary arrangements. And somehow, I don't think my kids will be any the worse for missing that kind of shit.

But, oooooo God, I get so hard pissing off that servant!!!!!!!!!
Nathan / August 20, 2009 at 07:24 pm
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Sigh, just combing through the comments, is it just me, or is Toronto filled with uptight prudes?
servant_36 replying to a comment from merriemelodies / August 20, 2009 at 08:11 pm
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ya don't like it.... it is within your power as a responsible adult to NOT venture into it, or look at it. I stay away from trek conventions, zombie walks and gun clubs casue it's not my thing as well as goofy hockey games. Sorry, more violence and bad acts happen in a Maple leafs game than does at a fetish fair, only difference is that the people at the fair, win while leaf fans tend to be the losers.

MOst of these events are held behind private venues regardless, such as the Operahouse [yet FET in the operahouse], and the EX fairgrounds.

As for FET n SM....umm ya most of it is hypocritcal paradox. How else does it become fun and taboo? If it's not yer thing, stop being a whiney pussy and just dont' bother to engagein it. If it's not yer thing, big deal. Life's bigger than a fair. Mind you....can we also say the same thing with regards to PRIDE as well, cause mmore sex happens there than does at the fet fair.

As for sex acts at the fair.... people are forbidden to do that in public areas. Intercourse, oral, anal, and such is not allowed at the fair as it is a public affair.

But.... we can have lots of mainstream cultural sex references at shopping malls with I dunno.... scantily clad women.....La vie En Rose....La Senza...Most high end fashion outlets etc. Hell we see more SEX on TV advertisement than you do at the fet fair on sunday.

So enlighten me on the whole mainstream sexual culture and what is acceptable...and then I'll listen, but until then, yer just ignorant, perhaps a lil scared of.....hey.. what you may like... ;)
Tim Horton / August 19, 2010 at 09:41 pm
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I'm not even gonna comment on any of this shit! The Church Street fetish Fair hs served a purpose for 7 years now and will go on forever!

Coffee is hot, and we got timbits!!

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