Fashion & Style
Toronto's Unofficial Uniform?
One of the great things about Toronto is our diversity - and this is often reflected in our attire. Though we're not quite at the same level as London in terms of daring and individuality, there are plenty of unique looks out there. I've personally seen more women trying more extreme looks, but generally I don't notice a wallpaper look here.
Or I didn't. Last night, however, something finally struck me. What is with the jeans and button down shirt thing?

I like the look, don't get me wrong, it's hard to go wrong with such a generally flattering ensemble (assuming the jeans are the right size). However, as I ventured out last night, I noticed that a huge majority of the guys on the town sported this new uniform.
I've always distrusted guys in uniform. I don't like suits, I don't like khaki slacks, and I never could really get behind school uniforms (though I've heard the arguments before and they're plenty reasonable). Simply put, it disturbs me when large groups of people are all wearing the same thing unless they're some kind of sports team.
To see what was a refreshingly non-slobby look among lads about town was great - when it reflected some style and ingenuity. Now, everyone just blends together.

What's the matter guys? Are you looking for ideas? Is it some kind of tribal male identification thing - you and your friends all sport the same look for the sense of unity? Is there less fear in the tried, true, and approved by the masses look?
Ok dudes, I'm thinking maybe Maxim is too busy airbrushing gorgeous people to throw some ideas your way. So let me free-associate for you.
The Black Market is a nice, cheap (though weird smelling) place to find unique tees (don't make the mistake of buying something too big - it's a shirt, not a tent). Maybe you'll find a baseball tee from some city league in Winnipeg, or a shirt with a big picture of James Dean (style icon). Don't be afraid of a little something different - show some character.
Try to venture outside the black slacks (fancy) and blue jeans (casual) paradigm. No, I'm not suggesting you wear those cargo shorts to the bar. You could head to Kensington market and check out some vintage cords, or even some of those grandpa pants (just make sure they're long enough, the cuffs should hit the ground. I don't need to see your ankle socks) - find the right shirt and you've got a really singular look.
All I'm asking for is a little ingenuity. I know girls have more options (we have that whole world of skirts that most men are afraid to venture into - though I did see a guy last year at the Red Festival sporting a long jersey number and it looked super hot). Show no fear, dudes. Clothes can be a billboard advertising the kind of person you are. As it stands, most of what we're seeing is "I'm Just Like Everyone Else!"
(I know there's a chick clubbing pseudo-uniform, too - don't think I've not seen those black minis and skimpy tank tops, but by and large there's still more individual interpretation and variation on a theme there).
Be brave, boys. We like to see a little chutzpah.


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I'm not trying to suggest guys run out and buy XL came-in-a-case-of-Molson shirts, and I suggest Kensington because of the kind of variety one finds in the shops.
The reason guys in tees is 'a problem' is the lack of thought that goes into choosing the ensemble, not because there's actually a problem with tee-shirts. I'm not married to a tees-or-nothing mentality, I'm just trying to start a little brainstorming.
What sort of thing would you like to see the heretofore uncreative and/or carelessly dressed lads in?
Guys in Toronto are still for the most part conservative in their style, and in the 'wear-what-everyone-else-is-wearing' mindset. They are just not the experimental fashion types who would go out of their way to find those new spots to buy clothes.
I think people here are also scared to make a statement with their look - they are more comfortable wearing the latest style to look cool, but don't want to take a risk and stand out TOO much.
It takes more work and a lot more creativity to wear clothes that are different than the norm...and that, by the way, is also true for women in this city ;)
I have a bigger problem. I'm tall and large-build. Even when I find a men's department they they don't stock anything in my size. Nothing. My only choice is Moore's or Big and Tall. "Yes, sir. We have shirts in white, white, white and off-white... Coats? Yes, sir. We have those in black, black, black and grey."
This city is hopeless but I still find ways to be creative (not sharing that secret in fear in may become a trend) and if you're a regular build there's no excuse. It's not easy but it can be done.
I'll just go shopping for my men in England! haha
"Oh my god Stacie, I'm totally gonna write about this for my next blog."
Self assured giggling and 'fuck guys,I just wanna dance' female camaraderie.
Congratulations on your epiphany.
Wait, did I say congratulations? Sorry, what I meant to say was: are you kidding me? Your alternative to the simplicity, timelessness and class of a dress shirt is James dean and the pre-fab coolness of vintage t-shirts?! If only everyone knew that salvation was but a $60 pre-weathered rolling stones t-shirt away! 4 years ago you'd have been writing about how guys needed to ditch their low-brow look and try something a little dressier, so they follow your advice and yet still they can do no right. Not to make this into a larger metaphor for the differences of men and women, but I think there's a larger pattern at work here.
Be happy that guys are caring enough to put on a shirt with sleeves, instead of urging them to venture off on a path that very well may lead to salmon colored 'Daytona 500' tank tops and acid washed cut offs. If you want to insult anyone for their choice of clothing (which is an insanely egotistical and hollow endeavor to begin with) you should aim your sights on those self conscious fools who value so highly what they (and others) wear, not a group of people who by your own admission, probably couldn't car less.
It's cute how you think I'm one of those chicks who has 'girls night out' and feels the need to blog about things my 'girlfriends' talk about - have I been mistaken for <a href="http://www.theglobeandmail.com/servlet/story/RTGAM.20050723.wxuniverse23/BNStory/National/?pageRequested=all" target="_blank">Leah McLaren</a>?
I actually came up with the idea after walking home from work on a Friday night, and seeing every other group of guys wearing the exact same thing - usually the same colour in a slightly different shade. I noticed the same thing while I was out at a friend's birthday party on Saturday night, and walking home down Spadina.
Did you miss the part about buying things cheap and/or second hand? I would never suggest anyone buy a shirt over 20$ unless it was for a wedding or something.
And clearly this is just my opinion - I just think guys should be more individual in their choice of attire. If guys had their druthers, they'd probably wander around in boxers all day. If girls only cared for comfort, we'd be in comfy pants and sweatshirts. The world might be a happier place.
Just kidding, I have no clue who Leah Mclaren is. I just took you as being the mindless sort of twat who would complain about a guy lacking the 'individualism' to purchase pre-fab vintage t shirts from a store that specializes in one stop alterna-coolness.
Admit it, when I credited your story to the drunken musings of 'Stacie', that shit made you laugh though, didn't it?
What do you care what other people wear and who gives a shit about your opinion regarding it? Shouldn't you at least include a picture of what you were wearing to give us a little perspective?
It seems to me that someone who bothers to go home and craft a lesson for young men on fashion needs a better hobby than blogging.
Stick to suggesting burritos and breakfast dives.
Someone deemed this the "best article ever written"! :)
These are far from facts, just my own assumptions. In the end, ladies face it, in general, guys aren't as interested in fashion as girls. IN GENERAL, not all. That doesn't mean they don't want to look good, but many fewer want to spend a whole day searching out for those perfect button-ups/undies etc...
Wear what you want, if it's a 1 dollar shirt from good-will or a 200 dollar silk, just try to leave the ego behind when you do.