Sex as a Jam: Having Sex without a Script - part 1
Does sex sometimes feel formulaic for you? Do you, like most of us, find ways of doing sex that “work” and stick to them like a script?
Going off-script during sex is not easy. Most of us have been indoctrinated with ideas about gender, bodies, pleasure, and what sex is supposed to look like (through family, schooling, media, porn, and endlessly more). While none of these are necessarily false (if you don’t think you can enjoy X because of Y, chances are you won’t), they serve to limit our imagination about how else things could be.