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American social club Grouper debuts in Toronto

Posted by Alexandra Grigorescu / October 25, 2012

grouper torontoThanks to the social networking website Grouper, which will be launching in Toronto on Halloween, your next relationship (or a group of three new friends) is just a short algorithm away. The premise of Grouper is fairly simple. First, you sign up, linking to your Facebook profile and answering some questions and then, you're connected with a compatible Grouper member of the opposite sex. Finally, the two of you meet at a time and venue arranged through Grouper over that time-honoured social lubricant, a round of drinks.

Sound run-of-the-mill? Grouper differentiates itself by asking that you bring along two friends each (male if you're male, female if you're female), and harkening back to the days of the wholesome group date.

Grouper is an import from the U.S., and Toronto is its first international venture (with Vancouver and Montreal set to arrive shortly). The service was founded in 2011 as a way for founder Michael Waxman to meet people following a break-up. This last part will, I think, resonate with anyone who's let friends fall by the wayside while in that blissful relationship Xanadu-for-two, or who suffers from painful shyness following the collapse of said paradise.

Grouper terms itself a social club (read: not a dating service), but the insistence on opposite sex connections has obvious connotations. Fortunately, if any red flags are raised along the way, your entourage provides a helpful buffer. And yes, it's obviously capitulating on the wingman culture made popular by How I Met Your Mother, as well as the "choose your mate" element of The Bachelor and (my own personal guilty pleasure) Love in the Wild.

Toronto bars slated to host these potentially awkward get-togethers include Hair of the Dog, Stirling Room, and Habits Gastropub. Your first round of drinks is pre-paid, which guarantees you'll give the loosely-veiled set-up a chance.

What do you think? Would you give Grouper a try? Let us know in the comments below.

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Discussion

7 Comments

Mikey / October 25, 2012 at 11:12 am
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Is this a free service? If so, it's being tried.

Also, why would I have to limit myself to those mediocre choices?
Amy / October 25, 2012 at 06:43 pm
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No same-sex dating? Oh.
andrew / October 25, 2012 at 06:54 pm
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this isnt for the band grouper? lame
jo / October 27, 2012 at 01:43 am
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just signed up..
Ashlee / November 18, 2012 at 05:37 am
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The judgment to experiment with Internet dating shouldn t be made frivolously.

And we're not even counting the extra Eharmony discounts that can be gotten by acquiring a web coupon (more on that later). The most common form of victimization involves financial scams, but people have been stalked, sexually assaulted, and even murdered by people who falsely portrayed themselves online.
jo / November 21, 2012 at 11:45 pm
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Has anyone done this yet in Toronto?? got offered a date but seem pretty pushy about getting 20bucks a person off me with not much info given
international dating sites / March 21, 2013 at 04:50 pm
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Very good written article. It will be helpful to everyone who utilizes it, including myself.
Keep up the good work - i will definitely read more
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