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Posted by Guest Contributor / October 17, 2008

apathy in torontoYesterday morning, several cyclists had to have biked east past a man lying on the bike path lane on Gerrard between Jarvis and Church. Not a single person stopped to call for assistance or even to return back to the police car sitting just seconds away on Jarvis.

Although it appeared that he was a drunk who had simply passed out all it would have taken was one car driver to abruptly change lanes and he would have been run over.

By the time I arrived, a woman had stopped her morning walk to call 911 and I circled back to the police on Jarvis - who promptly came over.

What concerns me most is that none of my 6 fellow cyclists riding along the bike path bothered to stop. Presumably, several people in cars and pedestrians walking on the sidewalk also turned a blind eye.

Why so much apathy? Is this really the type of city we are becoming... so self absorbed that we can't take a few minutes from our lives to make sure someone is taken care of or removed from a dangerous situation?

I hope not.

Written by guest contributor Anne Zakula.

Photo by Photosapience.

Discussion

20 Comments

duthie / October 17, 2008 at 01:41 pm
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I imagine alot of people wouldn't of thought twice to take a look because it's so common seeing the homeless on the street.
If people stopped for every single person laying or sitting on a sidewalk downtown they'd be pretty late for work.
Harsh but true.
Jerrold / October 17, 2008 at 01:46 pm
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I think Anne described this as being a man on the road, not on the sidewalk.
duthie / October 17, 2008 at 02:25 pm
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Thanks for pointing that out Jerrold. It is rather disappointing.
Munzz / October 17, 2008 at 02:25 pm
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Down and out
It can't be helped but there's a lot of it about.
With, without.
And who'll deny it's what the fighting's all about?
Out of the way, it's a busy day
I've got things on my mind.
For the want of the price of tea and a slice
The old man died.


Pink Floyd - Us and Them
Dark Side Of The Moon
chephy / October 17, 2008 at 03:07 pm
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Gerrard doesn't have a bike path. It has a friggin BIKE LANE. The former is something that weaves through a park, the latter is part of the roadway. There is a big difference (and judging from the comments, this misuse of terms did cause some readers to misunderstand the writer).

As for the situation itself, having a crowd of people around one often produces the "someone else will take care of this" effect. Some people might also have the cynical thought that someone whose actions lead him to pass out from drinking on a busy urban road a) has more or less chosen his own destiny and b) probably can't truly be helped at this point. Though one flaw with that assumption (apart from cynicism and lack of care, should you regard these as flaws) is that the person might not be a passed-out drunk, but rather a crime victim or someone suddenly struck by a heart attack.

I would have reported this, if for no reason other that his presence on the roadway endagered other road users, in particular cyclists. Although any cyclist who managed to survive over two days of riding in the city is an accomplished obstacle dodger...
handfed / October 17, 2008 at 04:37 pm
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Oh, poo, you're such a model citizen!
thom / October 17, 2008 at 04:42 pm
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It is called compassion fatigue.
whatever / October 17, 2008 at 05:08 pm
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Damn. This used to be a public forum for Toronto users, I see you didn't like my comment casue it didnt agree with yours... raised some questions... even though it wasn;t degrading or profain in any way.

Next time I'll only send comments that praise in hopes to get to join the discussion.

I thought this discussion was about this person lying at the side of the road, I can't even discuss them openly, its more about what you want and directing the forum. ..
whatever22 / October 17, 2008 at 05:08 pm
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Damn. This used to be a public forum for Toronto users, I see you didn't like my comment casue it didnt agree with yours...though it wasn't degrading or profain in any way.



I thought this discussion was about this person lying at the side of the road, I can't even discuss them openly, its more about what you want and directing the forum. ..


Next time I'll only send comments that praise in hopes to get to join the discussion.
Andrew / October 17, 2008 at 05:32 pm
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I hope there wasn't two holes in his neck, Dr Zakula! I kid, I kid ;)
Andy / October 17, 2008 at 08:29 pm
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Maybe if he were lying in the car lane rather than the bike lane people would have stopped?
chephy / October 17, 2008 at 08:55 pm
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Andy, I have no doubt they would have stopped then. Because then the poor man would have been *blocking traffic* which is the worst possible thing you could ever do in North America. Cannibalism and terrorism are taken more lightly than blocking traffic. (Bicycles, of course, don't count as traffic, being the lowest on the totem pole.)
Danielle / October 18, 2008 at 01:15 am
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I had a similar thing happen to me on the TTC once. An elderly man had passed out (later discovered, due to heat exhaustion) just beyond the old movators connecting the two lines at Spadina Station. There were at least a dozen people ahead of me who walked right by him and they didn't even blink. I was horrified and called 911 who came promptly and thanked me for not being a heartless zombie.
Colleen / October 18, 2008 at 10:23 am
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This is the Toronto I've always known. Someone tried to mug me on the subway and every single person in the car looked the other way as this gigantic drugged-out guy tried to take my purse. When I got hit by a truck while cycling up Bayview not one person came to ask me if I was okay even though many people saw me flying through the air.

What happened to the guy in the bike lane? Any word on whether or not he's okay?
Dan / October 18, 2008 at 10:40 am
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This is a bit off topic, but once bicycles start respecting the rules of the road more, I'll consider them more like traffic then.
Niknetz / October 18, 2008 at 12:47 pm
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Ever notice how in North America all the shows pretend to revolve around friend and family life, abundant social relationships and warm, funny, caring people, and in Europe all the shows pretend to revolve around work/career and cold, hard, jaded, lonely people?
mike / October 18, 2008 at 01:34 pm
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I agree with Thom's 'compassion fatigue' comment. It does happen unfortunately. But really there are citizens that do stop and help - I remember an incident at Queen and Bathurst with this guy(who was probably drunk or something) who could hardly walk and was trying with little success to board a TTC streetcar. Myself and several other people noticed when he stumbled and immediately sprung to pick him up. He obviously was not able to stand and had to sit(maybe lie) on the curbside. So in a 'what should we do moment?' we eventually flagged down a passing fire engine vehicle to help the guy. It was fortunate that this took place during rush hour at a TTC stop with a bunch of people around, but actually I was getting off the streetcar at the time and stuck around at least for 10-15 minutes before we flagged down the fire engine (and no I wasn't the only one trying to help).
alcoholism_to_death / October 18, 2008 at 02:55 pm
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I am aware that this is a terrible situation, however, alcoholism is equally as terrible. Having had a person suffer through alcoholism is a terrible slow death, taking many supportive family members with it. There is a saying in AA and with families in Alanon, regardless of they're pain and yours, you must let go so they can get out of their alcohol induced disease alone. It is terrible yes, but it is the only way when support means nothing to the individual who continues to break that support in order to remain drunk.

Poverty is also terrible, but there is always a way to get your life back. The system works, only if you let it work with you.
onegirl / October 19, 2008 at 11:54 am
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Just google "bystander theory" or "bystander effect" and you will find a lot of info on this. It was one of the things I was most interested in when I was in university. I've always wondering if it is culturally specific. I'm sure there is info on that too... maybe I'll look it up.
john / October 20, 2008 at 03:13 pm
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Gerrard and Church/Jarvis? I wouldn't have stopped - expect to see random zombies around there.

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